To become the people God wants us to be, it is essential that we choose the right relationships. They are extremely important because without them, we will be unable to accomplish much in life. We should pursue relationships with people who:

* Build our confidence in God, as well as in ourselves

* Encourage us when we are troubled and despondent

* Stimulate us to reach our potential

* Energize us when we are weary

* Comfort us when we are hurting

* Defend us when we are attacked

* Forgive us when we make mistakes

* Love us unconditionally

* Confront us when we go astray

It is good to ask ourselves if we have anyone in our lives who fills the needs mentioned on this list. It is important to discover which relationships may be deflecting us from the path of godliness. When this happens, we may have to separate from certain individuals in order to follow God’s plans. When separation is difficult, such as when the unhealthy relationship involves a family member, we can pray and ask for God’s direction.

Now let us look at the same list from a different angle. Do you do those things for others? We can determine to provide those qualities to people around us. Such relationships are among life’s greatest treasures. Let us pursue them now—tomorrow may be too late. — Proverbs 27:17